You didn’t mean for it to happen. At the time, it felt normal—routine, even. You’d tell yourself there was always more time. Another moment to say thank you, to show gratitude, to make them feel special.
But now, that time feels like sand slipping through your fingers.
You’ve replayed it in your mind, haven’t you? The moments you brushed off, the things you should have said but didn’t. The times they showed up for you, quietly, selflessly, while you were too distracted to notice. And now that they’re gone, the weight of those missed opportunities feels heavier than ever.
“Why didn’t I see it then? Why didn’t I show them how much they meant to me?”
But here’s the thing—they did see something in you. That’s why they stayed for as long as they did. They believed in the best version of you, even when you couldn’t see it yourself. That part of you, the one they fell for, is still there. It didn’t disappear when the relationship ended—it’s just waiting for you to rediscover it.
And it’s not too late.
Imagine this for a moment: what if you could show them now what you didn’t show them before? Not through grand gestures or empty words, but through actions that speak louder than anything else. Actions that prove you understand the value of what you lost and that you’re ready to nurture it in ways you never did before.
It’s not about changing who you are—it’s about stepping into the person you always had the potential to be. The kind of person who makes them feel seen, loved, and appreciated every single day.
Yes, regret is powerful, but it doesn’t have to be the end of the story. Regret can be a catalyst. A starting point for transformation. And when they see the changes, when they feel the difference, it can spark something even stronger than before.
Because the truth is, love doesn’t vanish overnight. It fades when it feels unrecognized, unacknowledged. But if you’re willing to show up now, to bring your whole heart to the table, you can reignite that connection.
This time, you’ll know better. This time, you’ll cherish the things you once took for granted. And this time, you’ll show them what they’ve meant to you all along.
The question isn’t whether they’re still in your heart. The question is—are you ready to remind them they’re still in yours?
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